By Amelia Calvert

Romanticising life isn’t about ignoring reality but rather finding beauty in in the everyday.  

Clothes aren’t just fabric—they’re energy. When you dress in a way that reflects how you want to feel, you set the tone for your day. Even if you’re just popping out for milk, throw on that jacket that makes you feel unstoppable or those boots that make you walk taller. Fashion isn’t only about trends; it’s about self-expression. When you look like the version of yourself you aspire to be, you start living like them too. By feeling your best it creates a sense of belonging.  

Music can change your whole mood! Create playlists that fit every scenario, these could be for cleaning your room, walking, or maybe even for those cry sessions in the shower we all have every once in a while. A playlist can change them blue and grey moments, bright and often easier to deal with. Or perhaps you’re quite content and need a playlist to match this cinematic experience. Suddenly, your walk to the bus stop feels like the opening scene of a movie, and folding laundry becomes a montage of self-care. Curate your life like a soundtrack.

You don’t need company to enjoy life. Take yourself out for coffee, wander through a museum, or sit in the park with a book. Solo dates teach you to appreciate your own presence and remind you that your happiness isn’t dependent on others. It’s empowering to realize you can create joy for yourself anytime, anywhere.

Life isn’t just about big milestones—it’s about the tiny, ordinary moments. Pretend you’re the main character in a coming-of-age film while grocery shopping or doing laundry. Add a little drama to everyday. Notice the way sunlight hits your coffee cup or how the wind feels on your face. When you romanticize life, you start seeing beauty everywhere. Take that picture of the falling leaves if it’s making you feel joy and happiness. Capture the moment you stopped and were present in the moment.